Sexual Enhancement

The search for sexual enhancement is a common pursuit among healthy individuals who take pleasure in interesting and exciting sex. There are countless ways to add spark to the bedroom, whether it be a glass of wine or a good massage, the use of bondage or even homespun theater. However, the creative and stimulating way in which sexual partners communicate has often been misinterpreted by many as deviant or unwholesome. This is unfortunate, as there is a high possibility that the majority of sexually active people have engaged in some sort of enhancement. Indeed, the common use of sexual enhancement underlines the fact that making sex fun is far from perverted but in actuality safe, legal and extremely popular today.

Critics of alternative sex may look upon it as a sort of diversion for those who are experiencing dullness in the bedroom, saying that those who engage in “kinky” sex are desperate to spice things up or need to feed some addiction to cheap thrills. While this is indeed may be true for a select group of individuals, such a judgment is highly dependent upon who, exactly, is involved. It has come to be agreed that, of those who apply a degree of psychological imbalance to the practice of sexual enhancement, the majority are also found to have a higher propensity to mental disorder or psychological problems of a more general nature. However, it would be incorrect to determine a person’s psychological state simply by how they act in the bedroom. Indeed, one’s countenance while having sex is often far removed from his or her public persona, and if someone enjoys performing intercourse in a rather unconventional manner, it is often a sign of nothing more than the enjoyment of healthy diversion. For many, alternative sex practices are done in the same spirit as playing football in the mud or dumping water on the coach; it’s fun.

The use of alcohol is a time-honored way of getting people into bed, and only lately has the connection between alcohol and sex been scientifically examined. Recent studies show that the consumption of one or more drinks greatly increases the chances that two potential partners will actually make the connection. Also, it has been determined that pleasure rates increase significantly under the influence of alcohol. While only half of men and women who drank nothing before having sex reported having had enjoyable sex, over two thirds of those who used alcohol reported an extremely pleasurable experience. An explanation for this can be found in the way alcohol decreases inhibitions by numbing parts of the brain, and allowing people to be more adventurous. It also involves the physical euphoria of mild intoxication being applied to the sexual organs. Yet it should be cautioned that the excessive use of alcohol is notoriously associated with erectile dysfunction. If a man drinks to drunkenness it is often the case that not only will he lose the sexual agility that the coordination of a more sober man provides, but he may not even be able to attain an erection.

Massage oils are another commonly used way of energizing sexual passion between partners. If a man is caught up with the stress of work and daily life, there is nothing better than a good massage by his sexual partner to put him in the right frame of mind and to stimulate his libido. Massage oils have been linked to sexual enhancement for a variety of reasons, the most obvious of which involve the similarity of the fluids to a wet vagina. The forceful, repetitive motion also rhythmically simulates that of sex, and it is usually found that not long into the massage sexual partners will comfortably slip into foreplay and sex. While this is a good technique for lovers at any stage, it is particularly successful for newly introduced sexual partners, as it gives them a wonderful opportunity to get to know each other’s bodies.

For those who like to play, there’s nothing more exciting than sketch performance in the bedroom. The effectiveness of role-playing is dependent upon the level of participation of those involved. When two partners are convincingly identified with their characters, the intensity of this bedroom drama is something to be marveled at. But what, exactly, is role-playing? The key to understanding this sexual enhancement technique is in getting to know one’s own inner desires. What is it that a man may have always fantasized about but never been able to attain? Was it the unattainable Catholic schoolgirl? Was it the cute, rough riding cowgirl? Was it a nurse? A flight attendant? What kind of situation did one always want to have sex occur in? Did one want to do it atop of a horse? In the hospital bed? In the cockpit? With a good level of willingness and communication between sexual partners, any of these fantasies can be realized through costume, simulation and that handy suspension of disbelief. It is also important to be ready to become the sexual icon of your partner. In the best-case scenario, both figures will complement in the combination of, for instance, a cowboy and cowgirl, doctor and nurse or pilot and flight attendant.

As hard to believe as it may be, even light sadomasochism (S&M) can be employed as a safe and valid method of sexual enhancement. Normally associated with the near torturous grasping for pleasure through the infliction of pain upon one’s self and one’s partner before and during sexual intercourse, S&M can actually be as innocent as, say, tying someone up and gently running a feather across his or her body. The trick to this one is understanding your sexual partner and the borders of what they will and will not do. Because the psychological processes behind the enjoyment of sex are rather complex, it has been determined that good sex involves only partially a search for pleasure, or the brief high experienced during an orgasm. Indeed, much of what comprises a redeeming sexual encounter is anticipation, and a certain level of pain. It involves the development of tension through playful acts like tickling, biting, teasing and holding off the final plunge until the ecstatic enticement is just too much for either sex partner to endure.

Does any of this sound perverted?

Safe and legal sexual enhancement is available to anyone willing to invest a little bit of creativity for a whole lot of fun. Enjoy your time together, and make every romance the best romance for you.