Sexual Enhancements
Threesomes, cock rings, and autoerotic asphyxiation

It appears that only recently has there been broader public acceptance of the so-called kinky sexual practices, ranging from sadomasochism to cock rings and threesomes. Yet the employment of erotic sexual enhancement devices and, sometimes, bizarre sexual maneuvers, has been a common practice throughout the centuries. And although seen by a select population as part and parcel of a sort of moral decline brought upon by the sexual revolution of the 1960’s and 1970’s, the existence of the less conventional type of sexual encounter has a well-documented history.

There are a wide variety of ways to enhance the sexual experience, often leading to sensually heightened experiences. And although some cast a critical eye upon those who practice alternative sex, calling it sexual deviance and other derogatory names, it is generally a valid practice if gone about in a safe and responsible manner.

One of history’s most outspoken proponent of alternative sex techniques and sex perspectives was the French Marquis de Sade, who spent many years imprisoned for sexual impropriety only to use the time to convert his activity into literary fame, writing extensively of what was to be looked upon by many as perversion and obscenity in regards to sexual acts and feelings- but to others as sheer genius in the world of alternative sexual activities. In fact, he is the namesake of sadism, the taking of pleasure from another’s pain, which, when combined with masochism, the derivation of pleasure from one’s own pain, comprises sadomasochism, or “S&M.” When employed during intercourse, sadomasochism involves the use of pain as part of the sexual routine. Although often associated with chains, handcuffs and the notorious “leather,” sadomasochism can be as mild as gently biting a partner’s nipple to achieve a heightened sensation during foreplay or intercourse. The Christian thinker and storyteller C.S. Lewis wrote about the combination of pain and sex. According to him, the pain, although a vital part of a healthy sexual experience, does not necessarily amount to pleasure, but to something even more profound. While Lewis would most likely not condone the more intensive sadomasochistic practices, or even sex outside of wedlock, it is evident that, according to him, pain is less of a perversion than it is a recognized part of sexual stimulation.

Threesomes
One way to “spice up the sex life” is by bringing a third partner into bed. Another gift from the French, this practice has come to be known as ménage a trois or “threesome” in English. It usually involves a male and two females, or a female and two males, and can prove exciting beyond belief. There is a practice where men enjoy watching their wives engage in a lesbian threesome. For some people this is a once-in-a-lifetime experience, while others engage in this practice regularly. In fact, there are couples that actively scout out third partners to join them in sex. For these couples it is like a hobby or pastime, finding a new partner every week or so. But no matter how one ends up in bed with a beautiful woman on either side, it is important to know the trick behind finding a happy balance between etiquette and adventure. For instance, while having sex be sure that everybody is included. But don’t worry about it too much; once a rhythm based on a good level of abandon is established, a high-energy cycle is attained and all three become lost in a vortex of pleasure. Threesomes have provided many with happy and exciting sexual experiences. As always, however, it is important to use protection and discuss limits of what can and cannot be done.

Cock rings
One device used to prolong and enhance the sexual experience is the man’s use of a cock ring. Sometimes used to counter the effects of erectile dysfunction, the cock ring works by helping to trap blood inside the penis so that a man can attain a harder, longer lasting erection. It should be cautioned, however, that the use of such a device should be limited to no longer than 30 minutes at a time. Cock rings can be found in sex shops but are generally not recommended by doctors and if one is experiencing any type of impotence, he should consult a physician before attempting this type of treatment on his own. For men who are sexually healthy and wish to enhance sex through erectile firmament, a cock ring can be a positive and enjoyable method, if used properly.

Drugs for enhancing sexual pleasure
Drugs are also used to enhance the sexual experience, and among those who use poppers or cocaine, many seek a more intensified orgasm through the use of these mind-altering chemicals. It should be warned, however, that these are controlled substances and that, in the even of an overdose, death could ensue. Furthermore, it is against the laws in many states and countries and we strongly advise you to consult an attorney to find out what is illegal in your area, as well as consult a doctor prior to engaging in any recreational drug use. By describing the current practices in drug use tied to sex, we are not condoning or promoting it, but only reporting on how people are using drugs for what they feel is better sexual enjoyment.

While cocaine just increases one’s level of euphoria, the fundamental high delivered by poppers is derived from temporarily cutting off the brain’s oxygen supply. In conjunction with an orgasm, many have reported that truly ecstatic states of consciousness can be reached. Some even claim that they have ‘seen god’ while others talk of feeling unusual bliss and perfection. These effects, however, are quite short lasting and often involve unpleasant side effects involving headaches, nausea and difficulty in achieving an erection. Apart from the illegal drugs, Viagra and Cialis are medical treatments for impotence that some men choose to use recreationally. These drugs should only be used under the directions of a physician. If one chooses to use controlled substances for any reason, it is important to be aware of the legal and health risks this type of activity can pose. Yohimbe, however, is an herbal stimulant and libido enhancer that is probably the safest of any sex drug available.

Autoerotic Asphyxiation
Yet while the dangers of the cock ring may amount to penile problems, and drugs may cause problems if used improperly, they are practically nothing compared to the morbid consequences often arising from autoerotic asphyxiation. This practice is conducted during masturbation or other sexually stimulating activities by men who seek a heightened orgasm through depriving the brain of its oxygen supply at the time of climax. Whether or not this is an effective for of pleasure enhancement is debatable, and the high death toll associated with this practice makes this quite an unappealing option. Often those who do not survive auto erotic asphyxiation are found by their own family members, naked and sprawled about in obscene and unflattering positions. If there does indeed exist embarrassment after death, this would be the way to find out. But more than plain embarrassment, this type of death is many times the cause of disproportionate trauma for the family and friends of the victim.